Friday, 27 January 2012

Porn In the City

Hiya Peeps,

So I’m recording the podcast for the dating series about porn and I have to admit guyz that this may be the most interesting piece that I’ve done yet as it provoked such strong reactions in folks.  In the name of research I took to the city streets (university student union) I was forced to listen to some really shocking tid bits about your sex lives. I now really know the meaning of the gutter press as I had to listen to all kinds of mess just to find out what really, ‘real’ out there when it comes to our relationship with porn. I was amazed to find out just by talking to y’all that porn is a dominant force in city bedrooms. 
 
Hugh Hefner has made a mint selling porn
A lot of women were horrified that their husbands/ long-term partners engaged in regular liaisons with their porn collection. For some women it had caused deep fractures in their relationships as they felt like this persistent porn love was a negative reflection on their sexiness or their sex lives. Others, viewed porn as a wife’s best friend especially on those nights when a ‘hot girl’ is just too tired to swing from the chandeliers.  A substantially smaller group admitted to having an extensive porn collection before even knowing their current partners as well as various love aids and toys and viewed porn as an extension of their sex lives and would be horrified to part with their love stash. (Debbie does Dallas any-one?) Most people in a long term relationships have experimented with porn by making a little home made visual action; but all agreed that this should be reserved for the long term love bed as no-one want to star on You Tube. 


Porn Star Lexington Steele

Just the other day a young brother I interviewed for the series let me know (a fine young thing in his early twenties) that he was finding the residual impact of porn on his sex lfe disturbing.  He explained that he had hooked up with a young woman for the first time who proposed back door action as an opener.  Needless to say, I was laughing my ass off (pun intended). Really? On a more serious note, I think it is true that the average individual is expected to take their freak up a notch because of the influences of porn.  Gone are the days when a little reverse cow-girl, accompanied by alcohol, some crotch less panties and slow jams is viewed as saucy night in.  People want to take recreational Viagra or cocaine to loosen you up a bit (literally) while engaging in a ménage a trois, where golden showers and tea bagging are standard. Damn!  I don’t think I’m a prude but some of this stuff just seems just plain nasty to me.  Since the average person in the city is not on the payroll of big booty entertainment why are people expected to act like adult film stars?

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