Valentines in the City (the last in the dating series)

Hiya Peeps,

What better way to end The Dating Series than 'in this here' season of Luuurve. True romance like every- thing else means different things to different people.


Ice Cube and his wife Kimberley

But  generally we here city dwellers fall into two categories. The slushy romantics and the practical romantics. The slushies tend to be that couple that have been together for an age but still hold hands in the street. Whereas the practicals are lover's that demonstrate their love through more practical means like, making sure your vehicle gets washed on the weekend, tire pressure checked an all.

Spike and his better half wife Tonya 18 years strong

Which got me to thinking about how our love languages vary. Personally, I think nothing says I love you like a like a woman in uniform (wink, wink) In the end though none of the flowers, cards, romantic dinners we will consume on the 14th will matter if you have unresolved Love issue's. This season could be the perfect opportunity to spring clean your mental, spiritual and romantic closet and exchange romance (the external performance) for love as when we are truly in love the romance follows.

 Bill and Camille Cosby back in the day. They been in this game before many of us were born 

 If you are in a relationship that is less than satisfying do the really romantic thing and free that individual to be with some-one else who is actually interested.  I recently encountered a woman who gave her beau of several years an ultimatum. You know the kinda thing; leave your wife or else! blah, blah blah...Less than one month later the woman mentioned aka the husband crusher is back with the man. wife an' all.  (an expensive trip to one of London's top Jeweller's put an end to the protest) When I heard it I was rolling y'all. Damn that story was so funny I damn near lost control of my bladder.  now why did home girl even go there???



Beautiful!

She had several options available to her;don't you think? Keep sleeping with the married man without the fuss. Find a man of your own. Or be alone for a hot minute to consider your own needs and give your lady parts a much needed rest. I guess, you guys have already guessed which one I opted for.


Fun and jokes aside. What does your love life say about you, this Valentines?