A lot have brothers have responded in kind to some of my earlier thoughts by spending hours discussing with me the secret behavior of sistah's, which ain't too pretty.
Ladies,the brother's are tired. Sick and tired of being with black women that profile like Michelle Obama, when a bitch, lies barely concealed just beneath the Mac surface. You know the type a low self esteem females who think they do not have to do any-thing to contribute to the form of the relationship but turn up with a colgate smile and a warm front. Or that having a 'good job' or even a job and a good head game, that no other redeeming qualities are required. Sistahs are talking a good game but are not performing where it counts.
- Trying to pimp brothers
- Not taking care of their bodies
- Not playing our roles, but also being masculine
- Making bad choice, after bad choice and expecting brothers to fix it
- Daddy issues
- Baby daddy issues (why are you using the kids to control/extort men)
- Zero pussy/ mouth control
- Weave/bleach abuse
- Chaos in the homes/ferrel children, dutty yard
Brothers have told me that they love us and would mostly prefer to be with us but NOT at any cost. Why are you taking money from your son that sells drugs? Why is your fourteen year old daughter, allowed to have her boyfriend sleep over? Furthermore why am I allowed to sleep over and we met three days ago in a club and you got kids? Come on ladies, you know it's true we have all got a friend that is either screwing a married man, alcohol/drug/dick dependent or worse all of the above. Brothers ain't takin this shit no' mo'!
We expect our men to love us when we don't even love ourselves. Damn! Brothers I know it goes deeper than this, so please leave comments so we can have a more balanced debate.
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